“Before you change the world, you need to bring the change in yourself first.”
Why do people compare their lives, especially their achievements with everyone around them, takes my breath away. No one would compare their struggles or learning with anyone else.
What joy do people gain, by comparing their successes with others?
Everyone has their own timeline! You know the best outcome for yourself! You know your desires!
Everyone comparing their journey with others don’t know the behind-the-scenes of your life, your journey, your hustle and your struggles.
Happiness should be the ultimate goal for yourself and the others around you; life would seem better that way!
Only when said, do people understand “comparisons” is negative for yourself and doesn’t provide any value to you.
Instead of focusing on
– what others are doing, or
– what the hot trends are, or
– what your weaknesses are,
Focus on your Strengths.
They will help you win the game. Usually, our strengths are something we love, so why not achieve something that plays on it. We’d be good at what we do, and be happy doing so!
Create a SWOT chart which states your strengths and weaknesses and the chances and risks you see for yourself.
Based on that, it’ll give you a clearer idea of your life and help you guide yourself towards a better future.