Negativity • Bad Vibes • Haters • Drama • Problems — we are surrounded by these things, all the time, in one way or another.
We let these elements bring us down, we feel bothered by them, and our lives are affected every day because of each of these elements.
You know what?
It’s time we take a stand and say to all the negativity, bad vibes, to all the haters, to the unnecessary drama, and to all the problems -⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
YOU SHALL NOT PASS
Say this to your mind, stand with positivity around you and in this process, also learn to train your mind accordingly!
If there’s a lesson to be learnt here, it’s that no matter how much you prepare, no matter where you are in the life graph, there are times when some things are out of your control and you cannot do anything about it.
You have to roll with the flow; your overthinking or worrying or stress won’t change anything at all.
Its just how things are, and life brings us such moments from time to time to make us realize that.
All we can then do, is to work on things that are actually in our control – you know what’s in your control – your mindset/ your thoughts/ your habits – you can work on them/ make mistakes/ master yourself at it and know that when things spiral out of control, these things in my control are my assets which no one can steal from me.
If you want to live life,
If you want to grow,
If you want to succeed,
If you want to be happy,
You have to learn to be alone with your thoughts!
Your thoughts convert into questions you didn’t know you wanted to ask yourself.
Your thoughts convert into answers you didn’t know you could answer!
Your thoughts open you up; show you the path; get you of the rut you may be in – all answers lead to you being alone with your thoughts and listening to them and understanding them.
The problem is people can’t be alone with themselves; even when they are, they aren’t alone alone.
You get what I’m saying?
One tends to end up on the social media platforms, watching a video or maybe productively reading a book or listening to a podcast (maybe).
However, you still aren’t alone with your thoughts!
Most of the times, people are scared to be.
They don’t know how to do so!
They don’t know what will happen!
If you don’t try, you won’t learn, you won’t experience the results.
Your thoughts are so powerful, they can make you or break you.
Learn to be alone with your thoughts || Learn to control them and focus on the topics you want to think about. (but that’s another topic for another day)
Have you noticed, a few percent of people hype up a certain task or an item or a deed, to an extent where it spreads and spreads and now, from the mass perspective you either follow the trend or have the fear of missing out?
That’s the game of hype.
People don’t notice whether whatever is hyped is something they needed or wanted… But, if everyone is following it, then why should we miss out seems to become the general consensus.
Well, to be fair, sometimes, the hype is around good things towards which it becomes easier to get the following, usually in case of a cause.
However, more often than not, it isn’t. Thus, calling out the game.
The sooner people realize what they need or want and how they should distinguish that from the hype around everything, the better.
Instead of falling in the traps, it’d become so much easier to be decisive about everything once you know who you are.
Have you noticed…
No matter what you do…
No matter when you do…
No matter how you do…
Before or After…
Everyone around you have a lot of questions to ask!
These questions never end.
After a while, they just seem annoying at the most. That doesn’t matter though, because the questions never end.
And they are asked by everyone! Literally, everyone.
They could be out of genuine love and care
Out of curiosity
Out of jealousy
Out of wanting to implement something for themselves
There could a hundred reasons here!
The bottom line is, the questions never end.
What can you do then?
How about trying to ignore this noise and just concentrating on your journey!?
Seems difficult, but I’m sure, with practice, it can be done.
Do what you feel needs to be done, without worrying what the others think or ask or tell you to do!
And to those asking the questions?
Try focusing on yourself first, before focusing on others.
In this fast-moving life of ours, where we are chasing things, running after one thing and the next, we forget about ourselves.
Who’s going to care about yourself?
It is utmost necessary to take time out of your day, every day, to focus on your self – mentally, physically and spiritually.
It’s always you first and then everything else. Start your day and end your day with caring for yourself – and once you do that, notice the difference in your day-to-day.
You’ll be able to think differently, have a different perspective of what you want vs what you have, how would you like to give back etc – the entire game changes once you focus on your inner self.
Our human brain is in a constant thought process – it is said that, in a single day, you think upto 60,000 to 80,000 thoughts in a day.
Yes, that many thoughts!
Every thought has its own importance, said that, quite often there are thoughts that have no value to us at all. These unwanted thoughts are sometimes negative too – towards us, or towards someone else.
The problem is, when you think about such things a lot, and now the brain gets the signal to think accordingly.
What can you do? You can train your mind to think in a certain way, to think of certain topics and to not think of certain topics.
Think about what you think and act accordingly!
No matter how your yesterday was, good or bad, today and every day is a new day.
A new day to restart, to refresh, to rethink your choices and your decisions and live an entirely new life the next day.
If the circumstances aren’t going your way, today you’ve the chance to change things around.
If the choices made yesterday, were a mistake, today you’ve the chance to make different choices.
Every day you have the chance to live a new day – it’s up to you, whether you want to or not.