What we have been taught of life has always concluded with an either or option.
You either win or lose at life.
You’re either happy or you’re not.
You either accomplish something in life or you don’t.
It’s always an either or option that you end up measuring yourself against.
I feel, life isn’t an either or game.
Neither should it be made into one.
What this thinking avoids is the process behind reaching these either or scenarios.
The experiences, the learning, the fun – all is lost when it’s ultimately summed into an either or.
In the quest to make life into something, we forget the now, we forget the journey, we forget these moments, all for that conclusion.
Life is in the middle, in the unknown, sometimes in the light, sometimes in the dark, finding the light, not knowing the next step, failing at something and then trying again, life is all about that.
It cannot be summed into an either or game.
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